Book Review: Ollie in Between by J.C. Lee
There are moments in a reader’s journey when a book feels like a mirror, reflecting not just a character’s experiences but echoes of our own. Ollie in Between by J.C. Lee is one such treasure—a poignant exploration of the complexities of identity and adolescence that struck a deep chord with me. As a nonbinary trans masc person, this narrative deeply resonated and made me wish for the comfort it could bring to younger readers grappling with similar dilemmas.
At the heart of this beautifully woven story is Ollie, a nearly thirteen-year-old navigating the rough waters of puberty amid friends who just don’t get it. The struggle to align one’s gender expression with societal norms is painfully real, and J.C. Lee captures this so authentically. Ollie’s dilemma—feeling too masculine for the hockey boys and too feminine for their best friend, Cal—perfectly embodies the isolation that accompanies gender identity confusion. As readers, we’re taken on a journey not just through Ollie’s internal conflicts but also their external challenges, highlighted by anxiety-inducing moments like shopping for bras and trying on makeup, which become fraught with expectation.
One of the most compelling aspects of the story is Ollie’s candid examination of what it means to “be a woman.” The essay Ollie writes for health class serves as an exploration of their identity, revealing the societal pressures that suffocate rather than liberate. This child is worried about familial acceptance, especially after losing their mother, and grapples with how gender expectations could fracture their remaining family bonds. The gentle yet profound insights from Ollie’s sister, Lila, about femininity reflecting personal choice rather than societal dictates profoundly underscore the narrative’s themes of acceptance and authenticity.
J.C. Lee’s writing style is engaging and accessible, with a pacing that draws you in effortlessly. The dialogue feels genuine, and the characters are vividly drawn, making Ollie’s journey both relatable and gripping. I particularly appreciated moments of levity that balanced the heavier themes—like when a girl from health class approaches Ollie, affirming, “no one has to become a woman.” These small acts of kindness speak volumes about the importance of supportive friendships, especially when Ollie realizes that perhaps they don’t have to endure solitude amidst their confusion.
The overarching message that resonates throughout Ollie in Between is one of resilience and community. Ollie’s journey towards finding friends who embrace them for who they truly are serves as a beacon of hope for anyone struggling with acceptance—both of oneself and from those around them. This theme is not just a comforting balm for young readers but a clarion call for understanding and empathy in our often rigid world.
In conclusion, Ollie in Between is a must-read for anyone, particularly young LGBTQ+ readers searching for representation and affirmation. It teaches the invaluable lesson that forging genuine connections with like-minded individuals can illuminate the path during those uncertain years. Personally, this book reminded me of the power of stories to create community and foster understanding. May more books like this pave the way for brighter tomorrows, not just for our youth, but for all of us seeking to be seen.
Thank you to Macmillan Children’s Publishing Group | Feiwel & Friends for providing an e-ARC of this book, and to NetGalley for serving as a wonderful platform for book reviews.